INDEX: This section gives the descriptions of each section on CPC. You can also view the section's description by hovering the mouse over a section's graphical link.LIVING WITH CP: This section gives my personal experiences on how I love with my own CP. Many of you who are disabled will probably find much of this section's content familiar.TYPES OF CP: This section explains the common types of CP and their classifications based on how they can affect the body.EMAIL DATABASE: This database is the very heart and sole of CPC. It allows people with CP, both young and old, to communicate with each other and share experiences or advice.CPC DIRECTORY: This section is a list of links around the web where you might find other useful information on CP and other disability related content.DISABILITY BULLETIN: This section allows people to post disability related questions to other visitors on the site; announce medical studies; any other information not associated with any current section on the CPC site.ADA LAWS: This section is a copy of the Americans with Disabilities Act information site. It contains the guidelines concerning the Americans with disabilities rights, fairness, and public access.AGING AND CP: This section is a report on how the aging process can affect a body with CP. This should be a must read for all visitors to the site. I will continue to add to this report as new information becomes available.DISABILITY WORKPLACE: This section can be used as a tool to help aid a disabled individual looking for a job. You might be surprised at what some of the experts say about how to approach the job market when you are disabled.
HOW SSI WORKS: This section will aid you in finding out if you qualify for Supplemental Security Income. These rules and regulations are plentiful. CPC strongly recommends you view this section before perusing the SSI route.MEDICAL NEEDS: This section lists online companies where you can purchase medical supplies and equipment. Ordering what you need online offers privacy, convince, and very often cheaper then purchasing from brick and mortar stores.DISABILITY NEWS: This section allows you to keep up with the latest news and events around the US and the world related to the disability community. The section is updated constantly so please visit often.THERAPIES FOR CP: This section discusses some of the different treatments used to treat CP. Some of these include Physical/Occupational Therapy, HBO, TES, Biofeedback and others.AWARDS & WEBRINGS: This Section contains information about the many web rings CPC has joined and awards we have won. It also includes information on how to sign up for our very own web ring or award.FUN STUFF: Occasionally I like to have a little fun on the web. Here you will find information about my hobbies and my many collections of items. This portion of the site is not directly related to CPC. Its just for fun :o)CONTACT CPC: This section allows you to communicate with CPC is several ways including email, ICQ, and out guest book.RECENT UPDATES: This section can be used to find out what changes have been made since you last visited CPC. This page is always updated when CPC is updated no matter how small the update.CAUSE SUPPORT: This section tries to help disabled individuals by supporting several causes that actively promote the awareness and fair treatment of those with disabilities.
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Hang L
hl2112@earthlink.net 

Hey everyone out there, please don't despair. Just because you have CP it's not the end of the world, especially for young people. It just means the right people will come by a little longer and sere the true person you are.

I'm 34, am Asian and have a disability., a double whammy you think to have positive relationships with anyone, right? Wrong!!! To this day, I've been building up my positive network of friends, been working full-time for five years, and have even dated several times in my lifetime. You see, some of this has to do having the proper social skills to interact with age-appropriate people, and that can take a really long time for young people with CP who are usually excluded from certain groups esp. the in-crowd and don't have many friends to socialize when school is out. I was in a similar situation in high school and college. Summer vacation would come and nobody was around. Although i did have A FRIEND OR two, I wasn't very adept when i went out with THEM Also, I stayed at home during my college years, a definite no-no for anyone with a disability.

However, when i went to grad, school, things were different.. I lived on campus, and most of the students we're about my age (25-30). It was a more mature and older crowd that easily accepted me as a person. I got to party every weekend, mostly with women and out of that experience, developed into a really caring person who to this day, have some lifetime friends both women and men. Another thing is to develop hobbies that will make you an interesting person to others. I like to go to museums, dine out, listen to music, live performances, and computers. And please, for college students get involved and join clubs that really interest you. Remember, you are not only there to get an education, but to experiment and try new THINGS. .

However, most importantly for us, socialization takes time to develop and refine. It doesn't just happens overnight or a few months. Honestly it takes years. The more you interact, watch for cues and the way the conversation flows , the better you will get.

Well, that all I have to say for now, but I certainly hope my vignette is helpful for someone, If anyone wants to e-mail me, please feel free to do so.